“Do not remember the things that have happened before. Do not think about the things of the past.”
Isaiah 43:18 NLV
Anyone who has a preteen or early teenaged daughter, preschool aged niece or school-aged granddaughter knows about the movie Frozen. If you’ve walked through the toy department at Walmart, you know about Frozen. But for those who’ve been off the grid or living in an alternate universe the past few years I’ll give a quick rundown of the movie.
Frozen depicts two sisters, Elsa and Anna, one (Elsa) of which is cursed with a spell that t turns everything she touches to ice. During one of their playtimes, Elsa accidentally injures Anna with her ice hands and the girls are separated for the remainder of their childhood. To make the story more dramatic, their parents are killed and Elsa is made queen. It’s at her coronation ball that the town discovers her curse and she flees fearing her curse has made her an outcast. At this moment of the movie she builds an elaborate ice castle and belts out the award-winning musical number, Let It Go.
My daughter was in 6th grade when Frozen came out. And she rode the Frozen fan wagon for a good year. No one could say the phrase “let it go” without her busting out the lyrics to the song. In the beginning it was cute and we would all burst into song. But like all things that start out “cute” and get overdone, it became incredibly annoying. Still to this day, even though she’s now going through her “emo” phase, it’s not unusual for her or my son to burst out in song when those three little words are spoken (and quite frankly I’m guilty of it too.)
In Frozen, Elsa had to let go of her fears and the idea that she was an outcast. She was actually created for royalty and the curse that was meant to destroy her, became her greatest super power. How many times have we faced obstacles or setbacks, even felt cursed at times with situations that were created to destroy us. The enemy will tell us were nothing but a lost cause, or trick us into believing the situation is hopeless. He’ll do whatever he can to throw us into a pit of despair and keep us there. But like Queen Esther, God may be saying, “Perhaps you were born for a time a like this?” (Esther 4:14) Or like Joseph (who was literally thrown into a pit) tells his brothers, “What you intended for evil, God intended for good.” (Genesis 50:20)
How do we break free from that pit? We have to let it go. We have to let go of everything that was created to destroy us. Let go of our past hurts, mistakes, losses. Let go of our insecurities and doubts. Let go of the negative self-talk. Let go of the abusers in our life even. We have to let it go. And then, like the saying goes, we have to let go, and let God (take over.) Trust me, I know all too well that this is easier said than done. But I also know the amazing freedom you will walk in when you finally do let go.
Letting go is a process. When Elsa belted out that song, she wasn’t free. In fact, right after her musical breakdown, she created frozen giants to ward off her sister and others who were trying to save her. She had to go through the process herself before she could walk in freedom. That process consists of speaking God’s truth about who we are in Him, aloud over ourselves and our circumstances. It means we rebuke the enemy’s lies and we call him out for the liar he is. It means receiving compliments and real love from others. It also means living a surrendered life to Abba God, stepping out in faith and trusting His lead.
Letting go is similar to jumping off a diving board into unchartered waters near the edge of a dam. I know, because I did that exact thing two summers ago. After spending a Sunday afternoon kayaking with dear friends of mine, we gathered near the dam for the men and kids to jump off the diving board. As I watched I noticed none of the women were jumping in. We were all just chatting and watching everyone else have a blast being dare devils in the water. Being somewhat of a dare devil (although at my age it’s much less than what I was as a kid-just as my mom) I decided I needed to step up and be the only woman to take on that diving board. And I did. Mind you, there was a grown man in the water ready to catch me if I started to drown. Nonetheless, when I got to the edge of that diving board and saw how far away from the water I was, I nearly chickened out. The only thing that pushed me to face my fear was a greater fear of looking like a coward. I closed my eyes, plugged my nose, thought to myself, “You only live once!” and jumped! And..I survived.
Although I didn’t start a female diving board club that day-in fact no other women even jumped on that band wagon-I experienced a freedom in letting go of fear. This is the same freedom we experience when we let go of a toxic relationship, bad eating habits, a habitual sin and negative self-talk. When we step out on the diving board of life and look down, Jesus is the man in the water, ready to catch us and He will never let us drown.
Whatever situation you’re in today that seeks to destroy the future God has designed for you, I challenge you to step out on the diving board, close your eyes, plug your nose and jump-trusting the Lord to catch you. If you’re a literal person, stand on your couch or bed and jump picturing Jesus holding out his arms to catch. Just don’t do anything that will cause an injury or death PLEASE! There’s so much freedom in letting it go. And since I just wrote those three empowering words, let me help you with the lyrics as you mentally or verbally now break into song:
“The snow glows white on the mountain tonight
Not a footprint to be seen.
A kingdom of isolation,
and it looks like I’m the Queen
The wind is howling like this swirling storm inside
Couldn’t keep it in;
Heaven knows I’ve tried
Don’t let them in,
don’t let them see
Be the good girl you always have to be
Conceal, don’t feel,
don’t let them know
Well now they know
Let it go, let it go
Can’t hold it back anymore
Let it go, let it go
Turn away and slam the door
I don’t care
what they’re going to say
Let the storm rage on.
The cold never bothered me anyway
It’s funny how some distance
Makes everything seem small
And the fears that once controlled me
Can’t get to me at all
It’s time to see what I can do
To test the limits and break through
No right, no wrong, no rules for me,
I’m free!
Let it go, let it go
I am one with the wind and sky
Let it go, let it go
You’ll never see me cry
Here I stand
And here I’ll stay
Let the storm rage on
My power flurries through the air into the ground
My soul is spiraling in frozen fractals all around
And one thought crystallizes like an icy blast
I’m never going back, the past is in the past
Let it go, let it go
And I’ll rise like the break of dawn
Let it go, let it go
That perfect girl is gone
Here I stand
In the light of day
Let the storm rage on
The cold never bothered me anyway!”
One last challenge before I close-that last line, “The cold never bothered me anyway!”- replace the word “cold” with the lies the enemy has been feeding you. It’s a great start in rebuking the lie and reminding the enemy Who’s really in control. It’s also a great way to start standing on God’s truth!