“He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.”
Psalms 91:4 NIV
Yesterday I came home to a package in my mailbox from a darling friend I met almost 20 years ago when I lived in another state. She was actually one of the first friends I made in that state and one of the few I’ve been able to keep even after I moved back home. Throughout the years God used her to be a tool of encouragement for me, to be His voice when I needed accountability and to know just how much He truly loves me.
This friend’s love language is definitely the gift of giving. At least 2-3 times a year I receive a surprise in the mail from her; a Power of the Praying Woman bible, a handful of devotional books, a bracelet with a crown on it reminding me that I am royalty because I am a daughter of the King, even a mouse pad with a picture of my children when they were just a toddler and infant (of which I still use everyday at work.) She’s definitely a giver, and she never expects anything in return. The best gift I can give her is quality time by means of a scheduled phone call (because our lives are so busy if we didn’t make phone “dates” we’d never stay in touch) that entails me mostly talking about myself (because she just enjoys listening and encouraging and sincerely wants to know how she can pray for me.) She’s even taught her son, whom I’ve never been able to meet face-to-face, but is the same age as my son, to pray for me and my children. It’s endearing to know there’s a child out there praying for us simply because his mom loves us and treasures the friendship she and I share. Other than my time and my friendship, this amazing woman wants nothing else from me but to see me be the woman God made me to be.
She’s the epitome of Christ-He too, is a friend who’s love language is giving. He loved us so much He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16.) He sacrificed His Beloved for our salvation. Matthew 7:11 tells us; “So if you sinful people know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask him (NLT).” He gifts us with the beauty of His creation, with breath everyday we open our eyes, and with an unconditional love that is almost incomprehensible. He shows His love through unexpected blessings and the gift of godly friendships.
What does He want in return-our commitment to spend quality time with Him. Just like a friend who lives in another state or even another country, in order to keep a strong relationship with Christ, we need to schedule daily time with Him, time in His Word, time in conversational prayer with Him and time to be still, listening for His guiding voice. God wants to be up close and personal with you and me each every day. He desires that we give Him the first moments of our day. But He waits for us to come to Him. He longs to hear us talk to Him like we talk to the humans we love dearly. We can tell Him about our day even though He knew about it before it occurred. We can express our fears, our worries, our deepest angst to Him and He will listen. In fact, He will do more than listen. If we surrender to Him, He promises to deliver us from everything that holds us back from His best for our lives. Did you catch that last sentence? God is our Best Friend, because He longs to give us His best and His best is better than anything we could gain on our own.
If you’re reading this, I hope this encourages you to make Christ your best friend. Schedule time everyday to be with Him. Become so familiar with talking to Him, that like me, you have a conversation with Him aloud in your morning commute to work not worrying about what you look like when a passerby sees you and thinks you’re talking to yourself.
God showed His love for me yesterday through my friend’s gift. It was a necklace with a feather charm (pictured above) and Psalm 91:4 written on a card. He knew I would open the package in my car at the exact time Chris Tomlin’s Good Good Father was playing on the radio. Tears flowed into sobs as I read the words of Psalms 91:4, the words my darling friend wrote in a note card and listened to these lyrics while also staring in awe at the gorgeous necklace laying in my hands;
“You are perfect in all of your ways
You are perfect in all of your ways
You are perfect in all of your ways to us
“Oh, it’s love so undeniable
I, I can hardly speak
Peace so unexplainable
I, I can hardly think
“As you call me deeper still
Into love, love, love
“You’re a Good, Good Father
It’s who you are, it’s who you are, it’s who you are
And I’m loved by you
It’s who I am, it’s who I am, it’s who I am…”
He is perfect in all of His ways and He loves us-undeniably.